Edel Wyn
In life, you find many people that try to act like someone they’re not in order to get what they want. Whether it’s love, recognition, love or an accomplishment, being phony is only a short term solution.
For lasting happiness and abundance, you need to be true to yourself and use what you have, not what you wish you did.
When you’re true to yourself, things may take longer to accomplish, but it will always be worth it.
Angel number 813 is a reminder that if you’re true to yourself and use your unique gifts and attributes, you can achieve some amazing things for your life.
I want to show you how by breaking down the message of this number, so let’s begin.
Your Angels Are Sending You A Message With 813
The temptation to wear a mask in your day to day life is always very tempting. I’m not talking about becoming a vigilante like Batman, but rather a metaphorical mask.
The pressure to conform to the ideals and ideas around you is something you will be exposed to from your earliest years.
From kindergarten to your adult job, people will subtly and not so subtly coerce you to act a certain way.
Many people will say things they don’t believe and act in a way that is inauthentic to them in order to fit in and blend in to the crowd. This is understandable when you think about it.
Humankind is deeply tied to the idea of community, and being ostracized and left behind activates a very primitive part of our brains.
We’ve all faced the temptation to change who we are to fit in. I certainly have, and I gave in to that temptation many times.
I’m a rather weird and eccentric person, but when I worked in the advertising industry, I felt like I had to restrain myself and be a lot more serious to fit in with my contemporaries.
When you act like someone else, you’re relinquishing the most precious thing you have in the universe: your individuality.
No matter how you may feel about yourself, you’re a unique soul and your life will never be replicated by anyone else for as long as humanity survives.
You also have so much strength and capability within yourself, and you have so much uniqueness to offer. Think of what so many people could have accomplished if they were encouraged.
Kids who wanted to go into music writing may have been convinced by their parents to go into something more ‘sensible.’
Someone at school may be convinced to study something at college they have no interest in.
When people are influenced this way, it’s often with the best of intentions, but it can have a ripple effect that can influence the person’s life and limit them in unexpected ways.
Angel number 813 is a blessing and a message that encourages you to be true to yourself and to use your talents and spirit to accomplish great things in your life.
Don’t try to be someone you’re not, as that will never get you anywhere in the long term.
I have more to say about that, so I will cover how we change ourselves and the consequences that can have in the next section.
Never Do This If You Keep Seeing 813
As I have touched on before, there are so many ways that we put on masks in life. Often, this can get you what you want in the short term, but it will never pay off in the long term.
Let’s say that you’re looking for love, and perhaps you’re frustrated at being single for so long.
If you go on a date and determine that the other person like a certain thing you have no interest in, you have two options.
1: Admit you don’t like that thing and risk making them not like you.
2: Pretend to like the thing to make them like you.
The first option has more risk, but it also creates a realer result. Either you will find out that this difference can be worked through, or you will realize that you’re not a good match.
If you choose the second option, your date may like you, but they’re not really liking you, they’re liking a fake version of you that you created to hide who you really are.
I have a friend that fell victim to this on an extreme level. This was years ago at this point, but I’ll change her name to Jean to protect her identity regardless.
She met this man I’ll call Dan on a blind date, and he seemed like a real catch at first. He was charming, funny and attentive and she fell for him instantly.
Within a year they were engaged and then a few months later they were married. Pretty much on the honeymoon, Dan’s mask fell.
He became colder, more irritable and controlling towards Jean, and it became clear that he just wanted a free maid to take care of him.
Once he got what he wanted, he felt no need for the mask anymore. Needless to say, that marriage didn’t last long.
The point here is that if you wear a mask like that, it’s only a matter of time before they find the truth.
Angel number 813 invites you to be true to yourself and throw away the masks you have created.
Maybe it means you won’t impress everyone, but the people you do impress will be impressed by the real you.
That’s more important, and it’s better to have fewer authentic connections in life than a lot of empty ones based on a lie.
The Hidden Meaning Behind 813 Angel Number
So far, the blessing of angel number 813 has been about how you act toward other people, but there is another angle to this blessing.
Your angels also want you to look out for people who wear masks around you.
It’s all well and good if you make the effort to be authentic and true to yourself, but if you’re around people who have tricked you with their own masks then you’re the one who suffers.
People will use the desire for acceptance to hide who they are and get away with it. Dan could tell that Jean was a kind person with good humor, so he replicated it.
It can take a certain degree of sociopathic tendencies to be able to mimic someone like that, but many people can do this.
It’s not nice to think about, but a lot of people will say and do whatever they want to get what they want.
You need to be wise to it and keep your eyes open for inauthentic behavior. That doesn’t mean that you should never trust anyone, but just be careful when you interact with people.
Your angels are directing you to build more authentic relationships in your life. That means there is a responsibility for you to present an authentic version of yourself.
However, if you’re going to do that then it’s fair to demand that from others. It’s not worth fitting in and being accepted if it’s by someone who doesn’t have the strength to be true to themselves.
It can be a lonelier life when you have high standards, but it will be a more enriched one. If someone won’t pay you the respect of being authentic and real, then it’s not worth keeping them around.
So, when it comes to angel number 813, remember that it’s not just about how you act toward others. It’s about the relationships you have and the power you have to create authentic ones.
Be true to yourself and don’t pretend to be someone else just to fit in. Your angels won’t bless this, and it never pays off to live a lie for a brief gain.
Be yourself, and demand that those around you do as well. If you do, then your angels will bless your path and guide you toward people who will build you up and enrich your journey instead of drag you down.
My Final Comments on 813 Angel Number
It can take strength and courage to be yourself when the crowd tells you that’s not what they want. The need to fit in can often trump the desire to be authentic and true to oneself.
Your angels know this, and they have sent you angel number 813 to give you the strength to be yourself. Don’t wear masks to impress people, as it’s not worth it in the end.
Remember to keep being yourself, and the right people will appreciate you for who you are, and it means you won’t have to live a lie.
I trust that this blessing will help you to lead a more authentic and richer life!
